yawny's life

Dream

2011-03-04T09:32:00.002+08:00

Had a dream last night. Well... I dreamt that I went to Korea with my chingu.

We bought a 2 to go air tickets & went Korea together.

Somehow, I dunno how we get back to Singapore later & realised that we still have 1 way ticket not utilise. So I suggest to her to take another 2 days leave to fly to Korea again. She suggest to forfiet the tickets but I told her it will be a waste. End up, we call the agency to extend the date.

Goodness gracious! I dunno what I have been dreaming! Weird!

生活一则

2011-03-03T08:57:00.003+08:00

昨晚上网时, 看了某伦早期上的综艺节目, 有网友留言, 说某伦太骄傲, 所以不喜欢他.

几个星期前, 和朋友们外出, 有位友人也说某伦很骄傲. 我当时的回答是"不清楚耶, 因为我不认识他本人."

很多大众, 会因为媒体的一些报道, 而对某些艺人产生不好的看法. 这足以见得媒体的影响力有多大. 不过, 本人觉得身为读者的我们, 既然不认识这些人本人, 就不应该看了一些报道, 而对这些人的人格下定论.

其实, 在好几年前, 本人对某伦也不太喜欢. 总觉得这个年轻人说话如此狂妄, 态度骄傲, 不懂得谦虚. 却没想到几年之后, 本人竟会成为他的歌迷之一!

喜欢某伦是因为欣赏他的多才多艺, 至于人品如何, 对我来说不太重要. 这个问题, 应该是他身边的人关心的事情, 不是我们这些不认识他的人, 可以随便评论的.

欣赏好的音乐, 好的电影, 好的作品, 对我来说才是最重要的. 他即不是我的亲人, 也不是我的朋友, 人品如何, 又干我何事啊!?!!

睡觉

2011-02-25T14:07:00.002+08:00

今天,姑娘我做了个重要的决定! 明天!我一定要睡到自然醒!

现在,就好想睡觉哦! ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

午餐

2011-02-25T14:02:00.001+08:00

最近, 时常和同事们去共进午餐. 今天,才发现都是和男同事一起吃耶....

哈哈...难道我是豪迈的女生吗? 也许吧....嘻嘻...

韩式泡菜拉面

2011-02-25T12:52:00.002+08:00

前几天, 在宏茂桥中心附近的素食馆吃了韩式泡菜拉面. 超好吃的!

下次去, 还要再吃!

快生病了

2011-02-16T13:45:00.003+08:00

不知道是不是过年的时候吃了太多燥热的食物, 现在觉得好像要生病了.

我超想睡的.....不过, 想着你那"超人"的精神, 我还是撑着来上班了.

看来, 我也应该去体检了....

这个星期超忙的, 要加油! 振作!

幸福

2010-10-08T15:28:00.000+08:00

其实这世上比我们可怜的人很多, 所以请不要每次自艾自怨的.

今天, 在街上看到一个有残疾的人在吃力地走着, 就觉得自己是幸福的.

朋友! 往后遇到不愉快的事时, 请记得你自己是幸福的.

胖了

2010-10-04T17:47:00.000+08:00

最近, 发现肚腩似乎越来越大了! 晕…………….

怎么会这样呐!!?!!

友善一点嘛!

2010-09-27T14:45:00.002+08:00

有些人的脾气真的好差喔! 问个东西, 就好像欠他几百万似的.... 态度能不能好点啊?

那张脸看起来好可怕喔! 吓到善良的我了....

一日感言

2010-09-17T15:51:00.000+08:00

不知道是不是休息不够, 今天一直在公司打喷嚏, 鼻水一直流! 不会是要感冒了吧? 别吧! 我没这种时间……

今晚一定要好好睡一觉, 周六和周末将会很忙.

唉…. 鼻子搓得快掉下来了!

房东好像要去旅行了, 会有几天不在家吧?

今晚会到朋友家过夜. 她说帮我煮好甜品了. 真是不好意思….. 她真的很照顾我.

明天是朋友女儿一岁的生日, 答应了她要出席的, 我可不能食言.

明天一定会更好! 加油! 加油! 加油!

短发

2010-09-06T10:19:00.002+08:00

昨天, 去剪了一头短发. 现在, 觉得轻松`自然多了! 人看起来也精神很多..

不知道为什么好像每天都睡不饱, 总觉得好累`好睏喔!

谁来救救我呀!!?!!

死亡

2010-08-03T14:01:00.002+08:00

也许有些人一提到死亡这两个字, 就会觉得恐惧吧. 不过, 我们一定要了解到这是每个人终究到最后都必须面对的事实. 不会因为你觉得害怕, 而就不会走到生命的尽头! 人活着就必须随时都为死亡做好准备, 因为我们永远无法知道下一刻会发生什么事情.

也许有些朋友会觉得我这个想法很悲观, 其实我觉得我是乐观的. 就因为这是见无法避免的事情, 那我们何不去面对它呢? 面对会让你懂得去珍惜身边的人`事`物, 好过在那里自艾自怨. 生命剩下无几时, 想想还有什么是你想在有生之年的时候来完成及珍惜的, 不是更好吗?

"人生自古谁无死, 留取丹心照汗清"

姐, 你必须坚强一点!

The world is getting crazy!!?!!

2010-08-02T09:53:00.003+08:00

I think I caught a flu recently. Weather has been changing drastically these days. Once you caught the flu bug, it take quite a while to recover. Oh gosh! I hear colleagues coughing & sneezing in the office now. I had been resting at home for 3 days already. Hope my flu recover soon! God Bless!

P.S. My fren says the world is getting crazy & I told him dat's becos human beings are getting crazy!

What happened to the young generation these days?

2010-07-15T10:57:00.003+08:00

This incident happened this morning on the bus.

When I got on to the bus, I saw this old lady whose sitting on the priority seat giving away her seat to a little kid who just board the bus.

I took a glance & looked at who is sitting beside this old lady. I realised that it's a young man. We met eyes to eyes & probably I shown some disagreement in my eyes so the young man looks a bit embarrassed when he saw me looking at him.

Really wonder wat happened to the new generation! Are the elderly suppose to give away their seats to ppl who need help & the younger ones just sit there & pretend that they didn't see? Oh gosh! moral values! I realli wonder if they know what it is!

Luckily, the younger frens of mine aren't like dis. God Bless....

在忙些什么呢?

2010-07-14T10:36:00.003+08:00

最近, 都在忙着看台湾偶像剧. 刚看完了'下一站,幸福', 之前看了'海派甜心'.

虽然, '海派甜心'还满好笑的, 可是还是喜欢'下一站,幸福'多一点儿.

因为, 小小彬在剧里实在太可爱了! 加上与吴建豪在剧里的父子对手戏, 看了让人觉得好温馨.

看了'下一站,幸福', 才发觉吴建豪的身材好棒哦! 不过, 演技方面, 就真的是得下点功夫了. 有一些镜头, 脸部表情不够丰富.

嗯.....下一部要看什么好呢? 还没决定耶...会是'泡沫之夏'吗? :P

鸟粪炸弹?

2010-04-13T11:21:00.002+08:00

今天早上, 在往公司的途中, 差点儿被鸟儿的粪便'击中'了!

偶住的那一区,鸟儿特别多. 时时都有被鸟粪'击中'的危险!

傍晚的时候, 鸟儿都爱聚集于在一些大树上歇息, 宛如万鸟回巢的景象.

总以为, 只有下班回家的途中, 需要额外小心. 结果, 今早才发现情况并非如此.

今早, 沿着私人住宅, 步行到公司, 就看到在我面前, 突然有一只鸟儿从上空掠过.

接着, 从天而降了一推不知是什么东西, 掉在了走在我前面的一位安娣的背上.

仔细一看, 才知道安娣被鸟粪击中了!

这时候的我, 不知道是要为自己感到庆幸呢, 还是要为安娣感到难过.

走在我旁边的仁兄, 刚好也看到了这一幕, 却选择了视而不见, 继续走他的路.

我在后面走着, 正在考虑是否要向前跟她说一声. 怎知安娣却越走越快. 最后, 只好作罢.

看来, 往后无论是白天或是黑夜, 如果要步行回家或出门的话, 都得很小心, 不然随时都可能碰到被鸟粪'一击即中'的危险....

Chinese New Year coming liao!

2010-02-09T17:08:00.002+08:00

wahahahaha..... it's been a long time since my last post.

What hv I been busy with for the last 3 mths plus? I wonder too....I'm just too lazy to blog! :)

Emm.. come to think of it, I actually spend most of the time on FB if I realli hv the time to log in.

Chinese New Year is coming soon! Will be even more busier!

I will be having a real long holiday from 13/02 till 21/02.

Guess I will be spending most of the time visiting frens & probably watch DVD in the daytime.

Reading always play an important part in my life. I just love to read! ok... dat means I will be going to the library too during CNY.

Will share my thots again when I hv time to come in.

师勇与我

2009-10-15T17:47:00.008+08:00

这是同事的儿子,叫师勇, 可爱吧?

师勇和我的合照

秋天

2009-10-02T17:24:00.004+08:00

秋天是个美丽的季节...

它没有春天的生气勃勃, 没有夏天的炎热, 也没有冬天的皑皑白雪, 可是它却带点淡淡的感伤及丝丝的浪漫.

想象着...和心爱的人, 在枫叶树下, 边漫步着边欣赏从树上掉落的彤红的落叶, 那是多么浪漫的事啊!

想象着...在这收成的季节, 农夫们都带着笑容收割着一年辛苦的耕作, 小孩子们在稻田里嘻戏玩乐.

淡淡的感伤, 则来自于一棵棵凋零的老树, 仿佛在为这个季节哀悼着...

偶就是在这样的季节里出世的...祝我生日快乐吧!

好累....

2009-07-24T12:05:00.003+08:00

最近, 真的觉得好累.... 我觉得很忙, 可是又不知道在忙些什么似的.

时常觉得很疲倦, 我也搞不清楚是心疲倦还是身疲倦了.

昨天, 朋友聊起另一个朋友的婚姻状况, 才发现对方的婚姻亮起了红灯.

现在的婚姻是如此不可靠吗? 以前的人结婚是'一辈子', 现代人的婚姻真的只有'一下子'!

爱情和婚姻, 真的是俩回事. 恋爱的时候, 往往都很甜蜜, 结婚则不然了.

结婚是两个人共同组织一个家庭, 然后一起生活. 如果搞不清楚状况就结婚的话, 也许接下来就无法面对生活上的种种考验了.

世界上没有完美的白马王子, 不要向往童话似的爱情. 不然,将来你会发现枕边人有很多不符合你择偶的条件, 心里又会掀起了无限的感慨和懊悔.

忠于你的选择,单纯的生活,也许日子会过得更美好!

What is working life abt?

2009-06-03T15:24:00.000+08:00

I have heard so much about the economy crisis recently. To be frank, I really think there’s nothing much we can do on the current situation.

Yes…. I must admit that there’s really nothing much to do in the office recently due to the downfall of economy globally.

I am getting bored every day at work & seem like dragging myself to work every morning.

But come to think of it, no matter what kind of job u hold, u will tend to get bored with it after donkey years of doing the same thing every day.

Most people want or hold jobs that are highly pay, some ppl just want work satisfaction, and some prefer to have flexible working hours….

There are all sorts of ppl in this world, we can’t simply satisfy everyone, isn’t it?

So stay cool & be happy always!

雨天

2009-03-16T15:12:00.002+08:00

今天又是个雨天.

也许是因为新加坡一年到头都是夏天吧,所以天气一般上都很热,不然就是雨天.

一般上这里都是年终的时候才会频频下雨,可是最近不知怎么了,都已经是三月份了,还时不时在下雨...

希望明天会是好天气...

要搬家了！

2008-12-18T21:43:00.002+08:00

最近都没时间上来哈拉一下，因为忙着收拾东西要搬家啦。

收拾东西的时候，才发现偶的东西还真不少呢！搬进去新的地方的时候，已经可以想象，同居的朋友一定会翻白眼。哈哈。。不能怪偶啦，37年的东西，怎么会不多呢！！？！！

搬去新的地方，又得适应新的生活环境了。不过，我相信我很快就可以适应的啦。

最近，全球的经济不景气，把全球的人类弄得疲惫不堪的，搞得大家人心惶惶的，怕老板随时送来个大信封。

不过，话说回来，如果真的那么不幸的话，也是没办法的事情。。。大家唯有自求多福了。。。

愿上帝保佑，希望这一切不好的，赶快过去，让大家都有好日子过。

好了，有点累了，要去睡了。偶会趁有时间的时候再进来哈拉一下的，你们记得等偶哦。

海角七号

2008-11-13T11:12:00.002+08:00

新加坡的电影院还没上映这部片子,不过我已经看了DVD了.

在台湾,这部片子深获好评,还在金马奖入围了好几个奖项. 这也是促成我对这部电影产生了兴趣及好奇心的原因.

它讲述的是个很平凡的故事,可是导演的拍摄手法,却带出了那个年代台湾人的纯朴. 整部电影,很有台湾本土的特色,当中穿插了台语及日语,更增添了那个时代独有的味道.

电影里唯美的风景画面,更是让我陶醉其中. 尤其是在海边拍摄的那几个镜头,拍得几乎可以和韩剧'秋天里的童话'妣美.

片子里,每一个角色,都有着属于自己的故事. 简单却令人感动,里面的每一个角色,都会让人留下很深刻的印象.

故事主要,就是提醒人们要懂得把握眼前的幸福,不要让短暂的生命留下任何的遗憾.

这部电影所耗资的费用应该不大,应该属于低成本的作品,却能有这样的成绩,确是不易.

刚上网,就在新动网阅读了以下关于这部电影的新闻,在这与大家一起分享:
http://www.xin.sg/article.php?article=25255&st=dtl

新加坡电影院放映的时候,大家记得要多支持喔! 不过,片子里的一些粗俗的话,年轻人可别学喔!

天使还是恶魔?

2008-11-11T13:10:00.006+08:00

前个星期六,去拜访了一位很久不见的旧同事.

她有两个儿子,一个九岁,另外一个四岁.

原本,想说很久没和这位旧同事见面,这次一定要好好和她聊一聊. 结果,才进屋子,就被她四岁的儿子给缠上了!

小不点一直要我陪他玩,一下子被令拿UNO牌砸他,一下子又不知道玩什么的,把我搞得昏头转向.

要知道我这个老人家可没这么多精力陪他这样子转,我只差点儿没累死...可是,看到他那天真无邪的样子,又不忍心拒绝他. 结果,我在他们家呆了一个小时之后,就乖乖走人了.

我有一个好朋友,她曾经说过,她超不喜欢小孩. 后来,因为当上了家庭教师,不得不和小孩沟通,所以后来也慢慢地适应了. 现在,她自有一套教小孩的方法.

看来,揭子--我,可还没被训练到这种程度.

我还是比较喜欢文静一点,不要太活泼的小孩.

恋爱与婚姻 (2)

2008-11-10T11:47:00.005+08:00

记得,有一个朋友告诉我他的一个朋友的爱情故事.

男主角在结婚前,所交的女友,全都是面貌姣好或身材火辣的美女. 有一天,他终于发了喜帖给友人. 友人去参加了他的婚礼,却发现新娘子是个长得很平凡,身材普通的女孩子. 好奇的友人,就问了新郎缘由.

新郎的回答可就精彩了!

他说恋爱和结婚是两回事. 恋爱的时候,大家玩玩,时常会带女友出门,当然要找那些充得起场面的啦. 结婚嘛...当然要找个平凡,顾家的女人.

嗯...我在想男生在这方面也许分得比女人清楚吧.

女人通常都象驼鸟一样,一头栽下去,就什么都看不见了.

一对夫妻在一起久了,如果又没有小孩,又不懂得在生活中增加情趣的话,慢慢地感情会变得越来越淡.

这就跟恋爱久了一样,如果不结婚,也许就是分手的下场.

最近,收到了很多朋友的喜帖,在此祝福他们都有段美满的婚姻.

恋爱与婚姻 (1)

2008-10-28T11:56:00.011+08:00

一直以来,恋爱与婚姻 - 对我来说,一直都是两码事.

什么是恋爱? 不就两个人 - 两情相悦,有感觉了,互相吸引,磁场对了,就走在一起.

什么是婚姻? 不就两个人 - 觉得身边的朋友都结婚了,如果自己不结,又觉得往后日子会寂寞无聊,所以就和交往了一段时间又自己觉得不错的对方结婚.

可是,爱情和婚姻是不同的. 很多人不能理解,所以才造成了有婚外情以及离婚率一直在提高的社会风气.

人家说'爱情是盲目的',这句话说得一点都没错. 一对男女,刚开始交往的时候,总是甜甜蜜蜜的,对方的缺点,你都会把它看成优点. 即使是很清楚对方的缺点,你还是会选择去包容它. 哈哈...这时候的两个人真的就好象患上了选择性的失明一样,他们见到的只有彼此,其他的真的几乎都好象看不见一样.

不过,现在的人谈恋爱 - 来得快去得也快. 因为,他们认为恋爱讲的就是对彼此的feel,并没有责任因素在里面,所以才出现了很多劈腿族.

现在的人结婚 - 已经不象以前,在结婚证书上签了字,就代表了一辈子的承诺,代表着你的下半辈子,就得跟这个人一起生活一直到老死. 有些人因为逃避而结婚,有些人对婚姻充满憧憬而结婚,不能够理解结婚所应当负起的责任,所以才落得有婚外情和离婚的收场.

结婚和恋爱的差别,就在于结婚,它代表着一种责任. 因为两个人在恋爱刚开始的时候,都对彼此充满着好奇,就会在相处的时候,不断地挖掘对方的一切. 到了在一起几年之后,慢慢地爱情就会变成一种感情,甚至一种习惯. 然后,就会因为这种习惯而后来演变成结婚. 结婚之后,习惯又会慢慢地变成一种责任. 当然,当中也不乏那些在恋爱一段时间之后,爱情或感情渐渐淡掉,褪色的时候,就会选择分手的情侣.

单身的时候 - 你可以偶尔选择喝喝咖啡,茶,甚至及其他的饮料.

结婚之后 - 你就只能喝一种你自己当初所选择认为最爱的饮料,不论后来你觉得它好不好喝或者说你喝腻了,你却得喝它一辈子.

整形? 你敢吗?

2008-10-22T17:29:00.002+08:00

最近,看了台湾的一个综艺节目,介绍了到韩国去做整形手术.

节目中,被访问的护士小姐大谈整形手术在韩国的普遍. 原来,在韩国 -- 样子还有分上等级,中等级及下等级的! 结果,主持人被告知自己原来是属于上,中等级的,不过护士小姐却认为他必须削掉后脸颊的部分,还说他皮肤需要漂白两色.

看完了节目之后,我想了一想,如果自己有机会整容的话,我到底要做哪里呢? 不想还好,看了看镜子,才发现需要整的部分还真不少耶! 呵呵...我看我必须整的部分有鼻子,脸颊还有除掉那讨厌的黑眼圈. 不过,想想可以啦,要真的做,我可真没这种勇气!

今天,我超无聊,就去问了几个朋友,说如果免费整形,他们要整哪里? 有些说要去掉手臂及身上多余的脂肪,有些说想增高. 可见,人对于自己的外在,从来不会知足. 可是,想想...要花钱来忍受皮肉之苦耶! 我看啊...单是看到那些手术刀,针筒等等,我就会马上晕了吧?

朋友们,如果有机会免费做整形,你们想整哪里呢? 整形? 你敢吗?

My experience with a blind man

2008-10-21T09:18:00.004+08:00

Last night, I was doing some shopping at TPY. While looking at bags, I heard someone shouting for help. Out of curiosity, I turned back & see what happened.

I saw a blind man waving his cane saying "hello!hello!". Despite of him shouting, no one was there to help him. Out of kindness, I stepped out to give him a helping hand. I asked where he is heading to so that I can bring him there. He told me he's going to the bus interchange so I hold his hand & walks towards the bus interchange. While walking, he asked where & stay & what I worked as but halfway through, he told me he was thirsty & need a drink. I saw his bus was about to leave so I told him so. To my surprise, he seems like insistence asking for a drink & he stopped walking. I told him once again dat the bus is leaving & finally he asked if I have $3 or $4 to give him so that he can go for dinner later.I digged out $3 & give him & guide him up to the bus before I go.

To be frank, what I got pissed off is I felt this man muz have been doing this very often to others. After seeing him off, I was really thinking... no wonder no one is willing to help him when he was asking for help. Most probably, quite a lot of ppl had experience what I have been thru. I dun despised ppl who begged for a living but I am very displeased with him is becos I feel he's using his 'weakness' as a visual handicapped person to go around asking for money. How u expected others to lend a helping hand to others who really need help with these ppl existing? I really wonders...

When he stopped walking out of a sudden & start asking for a drink, I knew that he was out for something. To be frank, at that moment I really feel like dumping him there & walk off but I just can't bear to do so.

I knew quite a few visual handicapped person but this is the 1st time I felt that some really doesn't deserve any help from others.

haiz.... what is happening to this world now? I wonder....

我的故事 - 小时候 (2)

2008-10-17T11:09:00.003+08:00

昨天,带了朋友的奶奶去探望一位过世朋友的太太. 因为这位奶奶的年龄很大了,所以行动有些缓慢,我就牵着她的手,一步一步地带她走着.

一边走着走着,我就不期然地想起了过世的奶奶...我奶奶过世的时候,我才上小学而已.

奶奶在世的时候,住在大姑家. 大姑家里超有钱的,住的是洋房,前院有个秋千,后院种了榴槤树及养了一些鸡鸭.洋房有两层楼高,依稀还记得客厅里摆着一架钢琴,偶尔我还会弹着玩.

因为奶奶住在大姑家, 所以放暑假的时候,有时候我就会住在大姑家好几天陪陪她老人家.

在众多孙子/女当中,奶奶最疼我了. 时常都会买糖果及零嘴给我吃,晚上的时候陪着我一起睡.印象中,也只有奶奶曾经搂着我睡过,我妈妈也从来没有.

她过世的时候有80几岁了吧! 是因为肺癌而去世的...奶奶在世的时候,很爱抽烟. 她平常也没什么嗜好,就会有空的时候,拿着那些一片片的布,为我们做百家被.

昨天,牵着朋友的奶奶,就让我想念起了奶奶. 那种感觉很温暖,很亲切,心里觉得热热的.

奶奶...我想你了...

祝我生日快乐

2008-10-14T10:18:00.007+08:00

唉哟! 我看我妈一定很难忘,好多好多年前的今天.

半夜三更的被送进医院,拼了老命才把个女娃娃给挤了出来.

女娃娃因为在母胎的时候,极度地不愿意来到这个世间,所以在妈妈的肚子里不愿意转身,结果导致有点难产.

当医生说也许要剖腹取出时,女娃娃听见了,然后自己就马上滚出来了,来到了这个世间.

时光就如流水般...转眼间...女娃娃长大了. 虽然,经过了岁月的洗礼,女娃娃还是一直活在现实和梦幻的交叉点上...

以上是真人实事, 是一位姓揭的先生所提供的. 哈哈..那个捣蛋的女娃娃就是俺啦!

从昨天到今天早上就陆陆续续地收到很多的电话,MSN,SMS 及EMAIL. 还有,之前请我吃饭的同事及朋友. 对了,还有送我礼物的朋友.

谢谢大家记得这个日子!

我在想,我应该还算是个不错的人吧. (然后,自己在对着电脑傻笑)

我的生日愿望是什么呀? 希望世界和平,金融风暴快点过去. 亲人及朋友们能够健康快乐. 然后,我赶快遇见一个有钱人嫁了,就可以不用上班,每天做我爱做的事 - 写写小说,煮煮饭等等. (又再自己对自己傻笑了)

(嗯...昨天睡不好,现在还在睡梦中. 请勿打扰.)

爱情魔发师之观后感

2008-09-18T14:20:00.008+08:00

我想如果要谈观后感的话,从角色讲起,会比较清楚吧!

杜亚斯(Artz)- 是剧里其中一个帅哥魔发师. 不过,本人对于他对爱情的态度不敢苟同. 喜欢小贝,又顾虑到尔奇,搞到后来想爱又不敢爱. 略嫌角色有点优柔寡断,扭扭捏捏.

林尔奇(Richie) – 帅哥魔发师之一. 尔奇从小失去父母, 是黑道大哥堔哥抚养长大的. 前期, 爱上了小贝. 后来, 发现小贝爱的是亚斯, 只好忍痛割爱. 后期的发展是和叶可岚相恋.

费南度(Fernando)- 也是帅哥魔发师之一. 不过,这个帅哥可是个花心大萝卜.

贝诺依(小贝) – 与父亲相依为命,家里是开传统理发院的. 以为自己爱的人是尔奇, 后来才发现自己在乎的人却是亚斯.

其实, 剧里的角色, 我还是比较喜欢尔奇. 浪子的形象, 总让人想多疼惜疼惜他. 印象中有一幕他和小贝分手的情节, 曾让我泪如雨下. 那份忍痛割爱的情节, 王绍伟演来精彩, 也让人看了觉得心疼不已. 脆弱的男人, 总让女人想多疼惜一些.

在这附上 ‘爱情魔发师’ 的片尾曲 – 甜蜜约定, 希望大家会喜欢

樱野3加1(3)

2008-09-18T11:01:00.002+08:00

因为要借给朋友,所以昨晚追看了几集.

青春果然是不能留白啊! 阿将及夏天的爱情真的单纯得让我好感动啊.

夏天问阿将,为什么他还戴着上一躺意外差点儿让阿将死去而弄坏的手表. 阿将说因为他要记住那个时间,来提醒自己不要来不及. 阿将因为上一次为了救夏天而差点丧命,差一点儿就没机会向夏天告白了.

阿将说他在乎夏天说过的每一句话,所以他花了2个小时,来学餐桌礼仪等等. 他希望夏天能当一天的公主, 所以把自己变成个王子, 希望能给夏天一个浪漫的约会.

为了让夏天能够在毕业舞会打扮得漂漂亮亮的,阿将不惜当特技飞车手来赚取外快. 他只希望夏天跟他在一起能幸福. 其实,夏天所要的幸福,就是阿将能够一直和她在一起,永远不分开,如此简单而已.

阿将意识到他未来不能带给夏天幸福,所以要夏天考虑出国留学.可是,夏天却不愿意因为出国留学而和阿将分开.

他们的爱,就是如此的单纯...

樱野３加１(2)

2008-09-17T12:16:00.003+08:00

昨天,看了第九集的樱野3加1,差一点儿没哭死.

阿将差一点儿就死掉了....剧里的阿将才21岁, 这么年轻就死掉的话,就实在是太可惜了.

最重要的是,他还没跟夏天说我喜欢你...所以他不能死啦. 还好,到最后阿将没死, 而且他张开眼睛,看到夏天的第一句话就是"我还没看到你听到我的答案的表情...我喜欢你."

超感动的....

不过,听说这部剧的结局很烂咧! 好像是夏天希望阿将挽留她, 那她就不出国深造了, 然后阿将就赶去机场... 后来,好像也没交代说到底有没有追上! 就是这样的烂结局啦! 不知道导演和编剧是怎样!!?! 一定要让人难过流泪,是不是?

难怪以前的老人家,都爱说'做戏呆,看戏笨'

唉...我就是其中一个笨人啦! 情不自禁的变笨... 只怪自己感情太过丰富了....

爱情魔发师

2008-09-16T14:29:00.006+08:00

哇!吃饱了就想睡了!为什么新加坡的午餐时间,只有一个小时呢?

最近,同事借了台湾偶像剧"爱情魔发师"给我.嗯...觉得还不错啦.故事讲述三个帅帅的发型设计师(明道,王绍伟及JACKY祝饰演)和女主角(曾之乔饰演)的故事.

故事大纲:

國際知名的美髮連鎖沙龍Neo-Image開幕了，三位超人氣首席設計師---亞斯、爾奇、費南度，俊美的外型吸引了大批人潮，就在此時，一名外交部官員奔來請他們幫忙；原來有洗髮精廠商舉辦名為「中法髮型大賽」的活動，找來打工理髮小妹對抗法國頂尖設計師，目的是為法國美髮用品做宣傳；由於此舉將嚴重貶抑我國際形象，亞斯等人決定馳援。
亞斯等三位設計師取代打工的小妹，為國人爭了一口氣，當亮眼的model頂著炫麗髮型走出時，亞斯等三人受到英雄式的歡呼。被他們趕下台的「打工小妹」，正是Neo-Image隔壁巷子裡「忠南理髮廳」的貝若依(小貝)。亞斯雖然把小貝趕下台，但是看她剪的第一刀，判斷她頗有才華，也暗中起了收服小貝之心。

半年前在英國的車禍，亞斯失去了母親與弟弟，但他不敢把情況告訴住在康壽山莊的麗蓮奶奶，於是假扮成雙胞胎弟弟亞鈞前往探視，剛好小貝作義工幫忙理髮，亞斯只好繼續「裝」下去…。
亞斯和小貝無意之間走到「水迷宮」，相傳一對戀人若是不加思索便能通過水迷宮，便是命定的戀人；當年亞斯與晴空，兩人並未通過水迷宮。這一日，小貝卻意外地一次便通過，令亞斯極為震驚。

爾奇的乾爹是香港黑道大哥「琛哥」，由於爾奇父親將他賭輸給琛哥，所以琛哥對爾奇來說，是永遠的主人。因為琛哥第九任老婆百合喜歡爾奇，造成琛哥的誤會，迫使爾奇逃出香港，而琛哥也派人「請」爾奇返港。爾奇多次歷險，小貝碰巧都在身邊，因此誤認為爾奇是「臥底警察」，爾奇也不否認，這樣的傳奇身份，讓小貝愛上了爾奇。

晴空悄悄返國，但卻沒有依約定來見亞斯，反而是在一旁觀察亞斯，果然發現亞斯對小貝很好，不禁有些失落。Neo-Image為助理舉辦的年度評比即將展開，助理可以找友人當model，晴空隱瞞身份，刻意接近小貝，成為她的好友。亞斯的雙胞胎弟弟亞鈞已經過世，但亞斯一直假扮弟弟，隱瞞著奶奶，為了讓奶奶高興，小貝答應充當亞鈞的一日女友，就在這一天，小貝發現了亞斯的許多優點，對亞斯已然心動。

晴空卻在此時來到Neo-Image，當小貝得知晴空就是亞斯的前女友時，心頭重創，靈感全失，輸掉了評比。爾奇也在此刻察覺到，小貝對亞斯的感情非比尋常。

晴空的出現，讓小貝在愛情跟事業上都遇到了可敬的對手，她跟亞斯的愛情未來充滿了不可知的變數。Neo-Image英國行銷總監Anna，是亞斯父親的情婦，Anna回國之後，積極籠絡費南度，在Neo的營運上面，與亞斯分裂成為各自堅持商業走向與美髮藝術的派系鬥爭，亞斯跟爾奇能否堅持證明追夢的人總有實現的一天？小貝徘徊在亞斯和爾奇之間，誰會是她最終的感情歸屬…

明道在剧里饰演的杜亚斯的造型,实在是超帅的! 里面有好几件他穿的衣服,我都超喜欢的. 还有,那卷曲的发型! 不过,如果论性格的话,我还是比较喜欢尔奇.

官网: http://www.ttv.com.tw/drama/2006/Magicians_Love/index.htm

樱野3加1

2008-09-16T11:31:00.006+08:00

Photo credit: www.pengpeng.com

最近,公司生意不太好,让我也觉得无聊到了极点. 每天来公司,似乎都不知道应该怎么打发时间,所以揭子 - 我就上来这里打发一下时间.

最近,除了在公司发呆之外,每天都会准时回家向我的手提电脑报道. 不过,倒是满享受在家里的时间的. 煮煮饭,看看DVD, 生活倒是过得满写意的.呵呵...难得偷闲嘛!

今天,和PAT在MSN聊了一下. 好久没见到她,倒是满想念的.

我最近在看由明道和陈乔恩饰演的一部旧作"樱野3加1",是一部青春偶像剧. 故事讲述几位学生的一些校园生活, 他们的家庭及遭遇, 当然免不了他们的爱情故事. 我不能说这部偶像剧很好看,只能说还可以啦.有兴趣的话,可以上它的官网看看: http://www.ttv.com.tw/drama/2007/InYa/index.htm

好了，午餐时间快到了，待会儿再回来吧！

天长地久?

2008-09-11T17:54:00.000+08:00

何谓天长地久啊? 现在这个年头, 还有人会相信这个吗? (翻白眼)

我看现在这个E时代的人, 对爱情的态度都是 ‘和得来,不和则去’. 谁还会跟你说什么天长地久啊?

所以, 本人很能理解为什么很多现代女性, 都爱追看韩剧和台湾偶像剧. 因为, 现实生活中没办法满足的爱情幻想,却可以在看戏的当中,得到一些慰籍.

通常, 戏里面的王子, 真的似乎和童话里的王子一模一样. 都是长得帅帅的, 很有钱, 很有型, 衣服装扮也一定是超贵的, 发型也弄得超好看的. 然后, 这些王子们都会是超浪漫的, 肯为了一个女人, 牺牲一切. 还有, 一定会给对方许下山盟海誓, 天长地久的承诺.

我想…现实中, 绝对找不到这样一号人物吧? 所以, 女人们也就乐于在空闲的时候, 看看韩剧和偶像剧, 来满足一下在现实中找不到这种感觉及欲望.

要在现实生活中, 找天长地久? 我看算了吧! 偶尔, 如果想找找这样的feel, 看看韩剧或偶像剧好了. 我们也别浪费时间, 在现实中找什么王子了.

倪匡

2008-07-03T18:12:00.001+08:00

认识我的朋友, 都知道我很爱看书. 尤其是武侠小说和科幻推理小说, 可说是我的最爱.

本人最爱的作家是金庸和倪匡. 今天, 就给大家介绍一下倪匡吧!

倪匡的书的背面, 都会简略的介绍作者. 其中一本是这样写的:

在香港, 纯以写稿而致 “富” 的作家甚少, 倪匡是其中之一.
倪匡自称是世上写汉字最多的人, 因为他自一九五七年由内地来港后, 写了三十年, 一个星期写足七天, 每天写数万字. 最令人称奇的, 是他可以写三十年而灵感不断`题材不尽, 且是畅销的保证. 江湖中人更戏称他为 “袋装书大帝”. 出版界流传一个笑话: 即使倪匡写的是无字天书, 也会迅速售清.

以前, 也看过其他再版的简介, 说倪匡是个奇人. 他可以把一部完整的汽车拆掉, 然后再把零件一个一个的再装回去, 让汽车 ‘恢复’原来之前的样子. 听说, 他在偶然中检到一个贝壳, 后来就成为了一个贝壳收藏家. 收藏数目惊人!

不过, 本人觉得倪匡的确是个奇才. 阅读他的小说, 非得有很丰富的想象力, 读了才会觉得有趣. 因为他的故事里时常会提到宇宙, 外星人等等, 所以少一点想象力都不行.

除了科幻小说, 倪匡也有写武侠小说. 不过, 本人还没阅读过. 嗯….好像也很难想象他写的武侠小说. 哈哈…会不会是带点科幻的武侠小说啊? 我真的无从想象. 有看过的朋友, 记得要告诉我喔.

说说就好

2008-07-02T16:13:00.002+08:00

觉得这个满有趣的,在此和朋友们分享:

说说就好 -

说了又不听
听了又不懂
不懂又不问
问了又不做
做了又做错
错了又不认
认了又不改
改了又不服
不服又不说

Kungfu Panda

2008-07-02T15:42:00.004+08:00

Photo credit to BC Quah

okok... Firstly of all, I must admit I dun watch cartoon or animated movies at all. This is the one & only that I enjoyed watching so far.

I have always love pandas & that is also why I decided to watch Kungfu Panda. Well... I must say it's really amusing from the beginning till the end. If you haven watch it, I guess you have to get a DVD now cos I think the cinema is no longer showing. It's a MUST watch!

Rate: 4 stars

Cute Panda!!!!

2008-07-02T10:39:00.006+08:00

hehe.... a taiwanese friend recommend this website to me. If you wanna see panda in action LIVE, go to this website - http://www.sandiegozoo.org/zoo/ex_panda_station.html

承诺

2008-06-27T12:19:00.002+08:00

也许,你们会认为我时常都三心二意,优柔寡断,无法决定一些事情. 很多时候,不是我不遵守承诺,而是没有能力,也没有办法遵守. 说了也许你们还是不会懂, 而我也累得不想说了. 要怎么想,就随你们吧.

郁闷

2008-06-23T11:00:00.002+08:00

虽然，在很久以前，就知道人生无常，生老病死，都是在所难免的。不过，经过了这次的四川大地震，这种感觉又加深了。

看到埋在废墟里的小孩。。。就在那么一瞬间，失去了他们的生命。父母再也听不到他们的欢笑，再也看不到他们的笑脸。

也许，是因为自己身体不很健康，再加上姐姐的病，所以感触特别多吧！

最近，又知道杰伦的血管硬化，真的也不知道该说些什么。他才29岁耶！一个年轻人，血管竟然会衰退到和他妈的年龄差不多！遗传病- 僵直性脊椎炎，已经把他磨得够累了，现在既然还雪上加霜。我想。。。觉得最难过的，应该是他妈吧。

我们家也有遗传病耶。地中海贫血症带菌。。。虽然，不会对生命造成威胁，可是，也够累的了。我们比常人容易觉得疲累，抵抗力也比较弱。也因为贫血的关系，似乎我们的胃都不太好。不过，可能我比我姐姐幸运多了。她在好几年前，发现自己的血小板比常人高出了许多。西医说这种问题，目前无药可医，除了改造DNA, 不然也只有做化疗。看了中医也没见好。。。现在，只好每天忍着痛过日子。

几个月前，我也去做了检验。报告出来，我的血小板也是有点高。其实，我也有点害怕。可是，我知道害怕也没用。姐姐叫我一个月后，再去检验一次。可是，我到现在都还没去。反正，都是无药可医，是不是也有同样的问题，对我来说，也不重要了。

胃不舒服，真的很磨人耶！胃一不消化，食物还没被消化，就直接被排出来，身体无法接受营养，而导致身体虚弱。接着，就会全身酸痛，头痛，忽冷忽热，脚气痛，全身乏力，想吐，吃不下，只想睡觉。没有胃病的人，是无法了解的。有时候，我情愿患的是其他的病，也不要是胃病。

最近，听说弟弟排尿有过多的蛋白质，因为暂时无药可治，必须长期的吃高血压的药。怎么我们家人患的病，都是无药可医的呀？唉…真是累人！除了让自己变得更坚强以外,我还能做些什么呢....就看开点儿吧.

快撑死了!!!!

2008-06-19T14:01:00.003+08:00

最近, 胖了两公斤. 每天, 吃饱了就觉得好象快要撑死了! 问我吃了什么? 也没什么特别的. 不过, 最近吃了很多巧克力及POTATO. 哈哈….就快要肥死了…..

看来, 要开始控制食量了. 不然, 如果有一天, 站在镜子前, 认不出镜子里的人的话, 我一定晕倒!

(以下, 请凭各自的想象力)-

"好….要积极减肥…..减肥….减肥…" 嗯…. 在积极的说服自己当中...

"Carol, 我刚买的薯片放在哪儿啦?"

我很忙

2008-06-12T17:50:00.000+08:00

首先, 这和周杰伦无关. 不过, 我跟他一样的忙啦!

今晚回去要做的事情可多着呢! 洗衣, 运动, 看书, 看DVD, 洗头, 吃饭, 扫地.

星期六 – 看中医, 然后晚上去朋友家

星期日 – 去朋友家, 去买礼物, 去PC Show

真的觉得时间不太够用咧！

想抽个空，放个假，都不行．．．．

无语．．．．．

初恋篇

2008-05-28T10:53:00.000+08:00

初恋对很多人来说, 都很难忘吧. 因为, 那是我们这辈子最单纯, 最纯真的一次恋爱, 一切都傻傻的. 傻傻地在对方家楼下等几个小时, 傻傻地在情人节的时候, 买玫瑰或巧克力送给对方, 傻傻地幻想着彼此能够永远在一起的未来. 一切都是那么单纯, 那么纯真, 仿佛这个世界, 只有彼此.

我的初恋倒是没什么特别的．嗯．．．第一个交往的男生比我大一岁，是个中欧混血儿．其实，严格来说，他也不算我的初恋啦！　因为，我们才在一起大概一个星期而已．为什么分手啊？　嗯．．．因为他思想太开放了啦．这是我１９岁的事情．　

正式的交往的，应该是在２０岁的时候．他也是个混血儿，妈妈是华人，爸爸是来自菲律宾．哈哈．．．别问我为什么我交往都是混血儿，是巧合吧！不过，他们都是帅哥喔！我还记得他们很有女人缘，很多女生都很喜欢他们．呵呵．．．不过，　我也不赖喔．那时候, 我也满多追求者的．我们在一起大概有一年多吧! 后来, 因为沟通不良, 所以分手了. 不过, 真的很逊耶! 竟然是我打给他, 他才说要分手的.

我的初恋可一点都不浪漫….　　　　　　　

是天灾还是人祸?

2008-05-13T11:20:00.001+08:00

最近, 频频发生天灾. 不久以前, 缅甸的风灾及昨天在中国四川的7.6级的地震.

这两个国家的天灾就不知道死了多少人, 难道大家还可以无动于衷吗?　别抱着那种心态说＂不关我的事＂．尤其是在亚洲国家的我们，要知道因为缅甸的天灾，已造成米价上涨的事实．难道，就真的对邻国没有影响，对我们生活没有丝毫的影响吗？如果有一天，你有钱却买不到米的时候，你就会知道钱不是万能的．　　

臭氧层的破洞，历史上的战争等等，都是人类自己一手造成的．

人类啊人类．．．你难道就不懂得来反省吗？　　　

24小时里, 你在做什么呢?

2008-05-01T08:40:00.003+08:00

哈哈。。。整一个月，没写东西了。

这一个月里，到底在忙些什么？其实，我也不知道耶。忙些很琐碎的事吧。。。

每一个人，每天都一样有24小时。这24小时里面，我们都做了些什么呢？

以一个国家领导来说，大部分的时间都是在看新闻，留意国际以及邻国的一些实事吧。
以一个艺术家来说, 大部分的时间都是在研究自己的作品吧.
以家庭主妇来说, 时间都用在家务以及孩子身上吧.

每个人24小时, 都在各自做着自己的事 - 应该的,喜欢的,讨厌的等等.

其实, 人在世间的日子很短暂. 我们应该善用我们的每一天. 现在, 除了工作, 吃饭, 睡觉以外, 晚上的时间, 都花在看DVD啦, 看书啦, 写小说啦, 上上网啦. 周末的时候, 如果有时间的话, 会出去走走. 为了有更多的写作题材, 出去走走, 观察一下周围环境, 人,事,物囉. 其实, 真的满有趣的.

Wat a morning!

2008-04-01T16:09:00.002+08:00

haiz.... dunno wat to say lor. Early in the morning nia so sway!

I was abt to get changed to my dress to go to work then I realised the zip spoilt le!
Then I bo bian... go iron my pants & you know wat!!?!! I burnt it! It ended up with a hole lor.

Finally, chop chop go to work cos already late. When I boarded the bus then I realised my Ez-link card bo lui le! Then, I got to dig out coins to pay cash instead. As I need to transfer to another bus, I notice that my wallet dun hv enough coins for the next transfer! After the alight from the bus, I saw a gal at the bus stop. Thinking that she might hv small change so I took out $10 to see if she could help. Sadly to say, she didn't even bother to chk her wallet & tell me she got no change.

I bo bian lor. Went to the nearest coffee shop to buy bread to get some small change as I couldn't get cab. And thank God! I finally boarded the bus & reach my office safely. Wat a morning! haiz...........

Sian..............

2008-03-19T14:01:00.002+08:00

haiz.... these few days I have not be able to control my temper well. Dunno y..... just feel agitated easily. haiz.....maybe I need to take a break. I need one badly.....

我的故事 - 中学篇

2008-03-14T13:33:00.001+08:00

想起在中学5年的日子, 我就想笑. 依昔记得, 这5年的岁月里, 似乎和同学们都没什么交流. 在中学的我, 似乎自闭得比小学还要严重. 在学校里, 我都不爱和同学们一起. 学校里的师生那么多, 我也只和一两位同学说话而已. 也许, 因为功课一向来都不好, 造成自信心不足的关系, 我只爱活在自己的世界里.

也许, 大家会以为我在中学的时候, 是个乖宝宝. 那就错了! 记得中三的时候, 和同班的一位女同学, 时常一起逃课. 这位女同学的家里, 是开杂货店的, 所以每天都会拿点钱和香烟到学校来. 逃课后, 我们就会去看看电影, 去公园抽抽烟. 看不出来我还这么坏吧? 因为同学说, 她不能再拿香烟回家嘛, 所以有时候, 两个小时里, 会抽大概10根烟吧! 真怀疑, 当时怎么没抽死呀!

中三分流的时候, 几乎坏学生都聚集在我们这一班! 班上30 位同学里, 只有10 位是女生. 中三到中五的时候, 逃课对我们这一班来说, 简直是家常便饭! 我们逃课不是说只有几位而已, 而是整班都不见掉! 那时, 其他班的同学及老师们, 一听到我们班, 就会猛摇头.

别以为我在学校没被鞭打过. 记得那时候, 不知道是谁做错了事, 结果整班都被拉出去鞭打! 忘了是一鞭还是三鞭, 总之, 女生也一样被鞭啦. 记得有一次和几位同学逃课的时候, 被校长抓个正着, 被罚站在台上, 在全校师生面前, 被狠狠的训了一顿.

哎呀! 总之, 没读书, 考试成绩也差到了极点.

又是这样混了五年! 真是浪费青春啊!

粉可爱吧?

2008-03-04T08:51:00.005+08:00

我小时候的照片耶!很可爱吧? 哈哈!

我的故事 - 小时候

2008-02-26T17:48:00.004+08:00

因为家里有一个哥哥, 姐姐还有个弟弟要照顾的缘故, 所以打从出世到大概五岁的时候, 我都是寄居在小姑家. 也许是因为从小就不和家人一起住, 所以到现在还是觉得和家人满生疏的. 还记得小时候, 每当假日要回自己家的时候, 都会闹别扭.

五岁的时候, 因为要念幼儿园, 不得不回家去. 也许是因为和家人的关系不亲近吧, 所以小时候好像是有点儿自闭. 哈哈…. 还记得小的时候, 我就已经很酷了. 过年的时候, 年初一一大早, 我们家都有小孩起床就要和父母拜年说些贺岁语的习惯. 可是, 每一年, 我几乎都是被姐姐拉着去的. 老妈时常说, 如果不说, 就不给红包, 而我每一次几乎都是给他们一副 “无所谓”不给就不给的样子. 哈哈…. 那时候的样子, 应该很欠扁吧!

第一天上幼儿园的时候, 我还满酷的. 没有流泪哦! 不过, 在第二天还是第三天的时候, 班上有同学哭了. 不知怎么了, 看到他哭, 我也哭了. 结果, 站在外面的老妈, 就从窗外狠狠地骂了我一顿. 从那时候起, 我再也不敢哭了.

小时候的我, 时常尿床. 几乎每天一大早起床就被K. 上小学的时候, 上学也不认真. 哈哈… 上课的时候, 时常都被老师骂. 晚上, 几乎不到半夜12点, 我都不会上床. 因为喜欢看星星. 小时候住9楼嘛, 而且没那么多路灯, 可以很清楚的看到星星.

爸妈很喜欢到朋友家打麻将, 有认识一些小朋友, 不知道现在他们怎么样了? 我连他们叫什么我都忘了…. 印象中, 有一个比我小的男孩, 有一次掴了我一巴掌. 那是我第一次被男孩子打耶. 到现在, 对那个火辣辣的一巴掌, 还印象深刻呢!

小时候的我, 长得还满可爱的. 皮肤白得象豆腐一样. 兄弟姐妹里, 我是唯一一个时常被一些亲戚朋友要去当他们家女儿的. 因为, 他们家里没有小孩或女儿, 所以老爱跟我老爸讨. 都是些姑姑, 爸的朋友, 印象中, 好象还有印尼华侨. 哈哈….如果当初被送掉了, 我的命运也许就改变了. 哇! 印尼华侨耶!

哈哈…. 等我找到小时候的照片, 再给大家看吧!

我就这样胡里胡涂地混了12年……

How to maintain your weight

2008-02-25T13:56:00.002+08:00

Just to share with some of my frens on how to maintain their weight. I’m not quite sure if you will lose weight after following my method but I manage to maintain my weight for at least 10 yrs already. You may like to try out but I got to tell u it’s quite tough.

Breakfast –

Cereal drink, I always drank a glass of Quacker cereal drink with only a spoon of sugar or a pinch of salt added. Sometimes, I will take a small pc of cake or 2 pcs of biscuits.

Lunch –

I normally take a little of rice with tofu & some vegetables or some soup stuff.

Dinner –

I normally take some steam stuff or soup stuff.

Some golden rules to follow:

For fried stuff, chocolate, gasy drinks & titbits – just take it only once a while
For potatoes & dessert – small quantity once a while
For rice – take only small quantity in the afternoon
For salad - eat with no dressing if u can

After 8pm – no food but if u are hungry, take a nutritious drink like milo or cereal.

In between meals, u can take some snacks like fruits or biscuits.

Every weekend, boil gou qi zi, dates & dang shen to drink.

It’s a MUST to exercise to help to maintain the shape of your body & your weight.

Not sure if it works for you but so far it works well on me.

Jay Chou's concert (2)

2008-02-20T16:15:00.005+08:00

Oh…. I remember I did promise to write a review on Jay’s concert.

Emm…. How should I put it? It was just marvelous! There were too many surprises for a new fan like me. I’m already very impressed knowing that he was the composer for all the songs he sang on his concert. But never did I expect him to be so talented on musical instruments. Let me recall - he played zither, piano, drum & classical guitar on his concert. Only later then I know that he learn how to play flute in his previous concert, which is 3 yrs ago. And not to mention that he can also played cello, 小提琴 & electric guitar. Of cos, he can only played a little on certain instruments but that already enough to make me real impressed!

The songs he sang on his concert are very well composed. Personally, I like 甜甜的, 阳光宅男, 发如雪, 夜曲, 退后, 彩虹 &　最长的电影. I am also very impressed on his 霍元甲, cos didn’t know that he was the one who sang the ‘京剧’ part. So stupid of me that I were actually searching to see if I can see the female singer on the stage & wonder who is this lady who sang so well. Faint! Actually, he does have stage presence & his “live” singing is not too bad either.

Overall, the concert is really very high from the beginning till the end. Didn’t regret going. Hehehehe…. I must announce that I’m a Jay fan now! Congrats that he have won himself another new fan after she watched “Secret”. I’m expecting another good movie directed by him 3 yrs later & I believe he won’t disappoint us too.

Oh gosh! I’m now looking forward to his next World Tour concert 3 yrs later.

谁来救我呀???

2008-02-19T17:37:00.003+08:00

天啊! 今天真是倒霉! 一大早不见了一样很重要的东西,早上大姐又SMS来说她入院了.还好,她没什么大碍.希望今晚回去能找到我的东西,不然就死定了! 谁来救我啊????????????????????? 真的有点沮丧耶!

深情密码 (下)

2008-01-30T10:31:00.000+08:00

终于把它看完了…. 赵深深是个多么幸福的女人呀! 有两个深爱着她的男人, 整整爱了她13年, 而且希望可以用他们的一辈子来继续爱着她. 不同的是, 一个是抱着下辈子, 来延续他的爱, 因为他的生命已经到了一个尽头, 他没得选择. 另一个, 是在这辈子, 他只能默默地付出, 却得不到他的所爱, 他哪敢奢望下辈子呢….

没错, 结局是戚伟易死了. 他用了他仅有的三个月的生命, 为他的爱情, 友情及亲情做出了应有的付出及责任.

他的爱情 -

知道自己只剩下三个月的生命, 让他不敢让深深对他有所期待, 他只能选择逃避. 之后, 终于坦诚面对自己的感情, 幸福地过完他的一辈子. 三个月的幸福, 也是幸福, 不是吗? 他爱她, 甚至自私的想死在她的身边…也许, 你会认为他很自私, 他走了之后, 那深深要怎么办? 可是, 爱情本来就是自私的,不是吗? 伟易坦诚地和小光说他很怕死的那一幕, 很令我感动. 因为和深深在一起, 太快乐和幸福了, 让仅剩三个月生命的他, 觉得害怕. 他宁愿自己的一生过得平凡却是长命百岁的.

他的友情 -

就象小光说的, 她和伟易的感情, 就象是朋友一样. 他得了肝癌, 他只告诉了小光, 因为小光就象是他的好朋友, 什么都能说. 对小光, 他只觉得歉疚, 他很感谢小光为他做的一切, 可是, 他也知道他不能为小光做些什么, 因为他爱的是深深. 最后, 小光也成全了他和深深, 把自己的爱情升华为珍贵的友情. 其实, 有时候, 做一辈子的朋友真的好过做情人, 至少友情可以长长久久的.

他的亲情 -

也许,最令我感动的是伟易对他妈妈的那份爱吧. 从小, 伟易的爸爸, 就没给过他们母子一丝的爱, 所以伟易对母亲非常的孝顺. 他在去世的三个月前, 录了自拍的录像带留了给母亲, 显示出了他对母亲的不捨. 从小, 没什么朋友的他, 唯一能让他感觉到爱及温暖的, 就只有母亲及深深.

总的来说, 我还是觉得伟易是幸福的. 即使是只有短短的三个月, 却让他感受到了母亲, 朋友及爱人的呵护备至, 老天爷还是对他不薄的. 人生难免会有些许的遗憾, 可是, 能在有限的生命里, 留给身边的人一些幸福及美好的回忆, 那也不错啊! 不要去期待下辈子的事情, 最重要的是我们要懂得去珍惜这辈子, 懂吗?

深情密码 (上)

2008-01-17T14:09:00.000+08:00

最近,跟朋友借了这部由仔仔及韩国女星,朴恩惠主演的台湾剧'深情密码'.

发现里面有很多经典的对白,让人觉得超感动的,也很有启发性. 感觉象一部韩剧,多过象台剧.

仔仔在剧里饰演的戚伟易,在25岁的时候,知道自己得了末期肝癌,觉得措手不及.只剩下三个月寿命的他,恍然发现活着的可贵,深怕自己会浪费剩下的时间,就列出了想完成的心愿.每一天,早上起床,就会对自己说'又少了一天'.让人觉得伤感又无奈.

还有,剧里饰演许志安的爸爸的男演员对仔仔说'人只要为梦想努力,即使无法完成心愿,至少不会有遗憾.'

朴恩惠饰演的趙深深以手语比出'象你这种无情又冷血的人,活在这个世界,简直是一种浪费!'

多让人深思的对白啊!

此剧,还在观赏中,如还有一些发人深思的对白,我再和大家一起分享.

暂时,到此为止吧! 哈哈哈.....

新年期许

2008-01-17T10:31:00.000+08:00

其实, 想了很久...以下就是我的新年期许:

1)上班不再迟到
2)要准时交房租（哈哈）
３）要准时给老爸家用
４）要多运动，保持身体健康
５）要开始物色房子
６）要忙得有意义
7)要多关心家人
８）有时间- 就多休息
9) 多看书
１０）少出门,少花钱　

Lee Dong Gun & Han Ji Hye broke off!

2008-01-07T11:39:00.000+08:00

credit to www.zaobao.com.sg

It was reported a few days ago that Korean Stars, Lee Dong Gun & Han Ji Hye ended their 4 years relationship. Both of them were together after they filmed the korean drama " My Bride Sweet 18" in year 2004.

I remembered Han Ji Hye even put up pics of her & Lee Dong Gun on her blog last year. Well... it was reported that the relationship ended due to their tight schedule & not having enough time for each other.

Actually, being a star & not having enough time for their partner is realli a big problem when come to relationship. When Lee Dong Gun & Han Ji Hye admitted that they were together, it catches fans & public's attention and ppl find that they are so compatible. Oh gosh! Who noes they will end their relationship 4 yrs later? This is realli kind of sad.....

Wisdom Tooth

2008-01-07T10:11:00.000+08:00

Got a bad weekend last week. Probably too heaty... I got a gastric, bad headache & bad toothache as well!

Arrrghhhhh.... can't imagine I got to extract all my 4 wisdom tooth.

Last October, I oredi extract one of them & there's still 3 more to go now!

My colli told me to go to the dentist after CNY but I realli doubt I can wait till then. I better have it extract out before CNY.

Poor me.... I only slept for abt 4 hrs last nite. Hopefully, I will hv a better sleep tonight.

New calendar = New Year

2008-01-04T11:45:00.000+08:00

Now, 2007 is over, here comes the year 2008! Well... there's actually pretty lots of things to think abt recently. Got to do some reflection on how I spent my 2007 & make new resolution for 2008. And.... I have yet to have time to do all these!

Every beginning of the year, I have habit of making markings on the new calendar so that I will remember my colleague & frens birthdays. Oh gosh! I cannot believe it! Almost every month, there's someone's birthday I need to take note of! *faint

Emmm....actually, I myself dun really celebrate my own birthday. Hahaha... maybe when one gets older, they just dun wish to celebrate or even remember their birthday at all! But I always like to buy gifts, send sms/emails or even hv dinner w my frens on their birthday. I think it's a nice gesture & ppl will feel gd when they noe that someone actually remembers their birthdays.

The birthdays that I shouldn't miss out this year will be my family member's birthday. So shy to say this but I always forgot theirs..... I guess I have neglected them a lot & will try to spend more time with them this year.

Hereby, I wish all of frens a prosperous new year 2008! I will try to blog as often as I can. hehehehe... :p

Raining Season?

2007-12-12T10:16:00.000+08:00

It has been raining & raining for the past 1 week. Well... some countries are snowing, some gets rain most of the time whenever it comes to year end.

It's not that I dun like rain but I'm always out of clothes when the wet season comes. I have been waiting for my clothes to get dry since Monday & I realli wonder if I need to wait till weekend for them to dry up. I always end up wearing dress or skirt when it rains if not I will end up reaching office with wet pants.

Another thing is lots of ppl are falling sick whenever is raining season. Flu bugs everyware... u can hear ppl coughing & sneezing wherever u go.

I do understand it's so shiok to be in bed at night with such weather but I can never get to go out! Not that I can't, it's just that u will feel sort of lazy, tired & sleepy to do so. Y can't our government declare Dec as a whole month holiday for everyone if it's gonna rain so often? kekeke...

Aiyo... rain... rain... go away... Dawn wanna go out to play....

Airport

2007-12-03T10:41:00.000+08:00

Me & my fren suppose to go for Sitex Show at Expo yday but looking at the crowd, we decided to detour to Changi Airport & visit the new Terminal 3.

I can still recall, during my school days, me & my classmates were always at the airport during exam periods. At that time, there's only Terminal 1, it was years later then Terminal 2 was built. Well....what were students doing at the airport during exam periods? hehehe... study & play lor. Gd wat... midnight if hungry still can get food there. kekeke....

I have always like to go to the airport when I hv nothing to do. I enjoyed the cosy atmosphere, I like the spacious feeling, I like to see the faces of tourist / locals at the departure area & arrival area. I can just get a cup of drink, enjoyed the 'free' air-con & sit there for as long as I want. I enjoyed sending & picking up my frens at the airport.

Yday, I was talking to my fren abt the airports that I have seen in various countries & giving comments on it.

My comments on some of airports I have visited:

Taipei, Taiwan -
when I first reach there, it was about evening time & the airport looks kind of too "quiet". Besides, the 2 customs officer, all the shops are closed & we have to find our way to the counters to get a bus ticket to the main station. I still remember it's a rainy day & the taxi for one way cost abt S$50! Dat's why we are taking bus. The airport dun look so clean & it's small.

Bangkok, Thailand -
this airport isn't big either. I think the one that I went was the old airport. Can't realli remember how it looks like as I left in a rush the last time. I only remember there's massage services at the airport, a lot of last min shopping can be done there as well.

Hong Kong -
I was there in 1995. I still remember I took a Garuda plane & the landing were bad. For those who ever went to HK will know that during that time, the new airport were not built yet. When the plane is abt to land, I saw the plane going down on the runway which surrounding are the ocean. I felt if the pilot is not experience enough, we might end up with a 'free' swim in the ocean.

Johannesburg, South Africa -
The airport looks nice & you can hardly see any whites or chinese there. There were no taxis at the airport. Only mini vans which the blacks were driving & waving to you when u r out of the airport. Luckily, I have frens in South Africa who came to pick us up if not who would dare to take the ride.

Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia -
I transit at the new airport. It was abt 1.00am in the morning & it's not very crowded. There were a cafe & a shop still opened. The airport were quite similar to the one in Singapore except that there's not many shops opening.

Incheon Airport, South Korea -
The airport is beautiful & clean. There were shops everywhere & make me feel at hm.

Sydney & Melbourne, Australia -
Not much of impression of the airport there. I guess shld be quite alright.

My favourite airport is of cos the Singapore Changi Airport. I like the smooth landing & the secure feeling of being home whenever the plane is abt to land. The airport were so clean & there's a lot of shops around for shopping.

After visiting the Terminal 3 of Changi Airport, I still prefer terminal 1 & 2. keke...probably there were too much of memories there. Moreover, I dun quite like the interior design for terminal 3. It dun look that 'class' to me. hahaha...

Hopefully, I will have a chance to visit some other airports again next time....hope so...then I can share w you guys on my views once again. hehehe....

Holiday

2007-11-27T09:57:00.000+08:00

A lot of my frens going for holiday this month & next month. All the rich, rich frens I have. hahahaha.....

A group of them going to Korea tomorrow, some going to Bangkok tomorrow, some going to Taiwan next month, some will be back from Taiwan soon. wah! Good life ah! hahaha...

Well... I always have a habit of asking my frens to help me to get something if they are away to another country. It's the same this time. kekeke...

Actually, I have more things to get from Korea rather than Taiwan & Bangkok. Like Se7en stuffs - Concert DVD, K-swiss poster, the dog soft toy, crystal ball with music & OST from My Girl etc. I paisei to ask my frens to buy so much stuff la so just told them to get me a square bag (with cartoon prints), Se7en concert DVD & K-Swiss poster. kekeke....

For those going Bangkok are lucky! I can't think of wat to buy so nvr tell them to buy anything la.

For those going Taiwan, I'm thinking if I shld tell them to buy the Almond powder for me. hehehe... this one is realli bery nice lor. I left oni half a pkt in my office.

Actually, I oso dunno y I have so much things to buy leh. kekeke...

Envy my frens who will be out of S'pore soon.... wait for u all to come back ah... with my stuff.....

muahahahahaha....

TGIF

2007-11-23T09:01:00.000+08:00

Thank God it's Friday! Finally, tomorrow can take a good rest by not waking up by my alarm clock at 7am in the morning.

emmm... wat's my schedule like for this weekend? Let me see....

Sat - shall wake up around 10am, do some laundry, cleaning up my room. Afternoon, shall go see chinese physician & nite time I have prayer class to attend.

Sun - shall go to children's class in the morning & afternoon go to my colli's baby full month celebration. Hopefully, able to get some rest at nite.

Pls enjoy your weekend too!

Cheers

怀念的两个朋友

2007-11-21T13:39:00.000+08:00

最近,忽然间,想起了过世的两个朋友.一位叫志明,另一位叫建伟.

志明生前是一名德士司机,他是在一场交通意外事故丧命的.事发当时,大概是凌晨时分.当时,他在路边洗车,正准备下班.忽然,一辆德士转弯,驶进了小路.由于,小路阴暗,结果把站在路边的他撞倒了.事发之后,司机竟然逃跑了.过后,志明被送去医院.由于伤势严重,不久,就撒手归西了.志明过世的时候,才40多岁而已.他留下了妻子及3名儿女.

建伟生前是在做研究工作的,他在去年去世的.过世的时候,他才32岁.他是在2年前,发现自己患上胰脏癌.经过了两年的化疗及治疗,他...还是离开了.

两人都是很年轻的时候过世的.不过,志明是因意外,而建伟则是因病去世的.志明什么遗言都没留下,就这样走了.建伟则是在两年里面,受尽了病痛的折磨,才离开的.

他们的逝世,让我了解到生命的无常.就象昨天,有一个朋友告诉我说'花无百日红'.

想一想,人的生命是如此短暂,可是,人却往往为了一些小事而起争执,甚至反目成仇,到底为何呢?

我开始懂得珍惜生命的一切,开始懂得有些时候,该停下脚步,来欣赏一下身边的人,事,物.

谁也不知道明天会发生什么事,可是,我们却可以把握当下,让自己每一天都过得很充实!

P.S. 朋友们,把我们一天的辛劳放下吧,把我们的心物放下吧! 让我们大家快乐的生活吧!

Public Holiday

2007-11-07T14:19:00.000+08:00

Emmm... tomorrow is Deepavali - public holiday wor. What will all of you be doing tomorrow, my frens?

I think I will sleep late & after wake up, I will watch VCD & DVD lor.

Thinking of watching movie but wonder which to watch lor. emm... either Brothers or Stardust bah.

Must realli relax tomorrow & have a gd rest & enjoy my good times!

Hehehehe...Hope all of you will enjoy your PH too.

Cheers!

Jay Chou's concert

2007-11-02T14:06:00.000+08:00

Well... I realise that Singaporeans watch concerts very often & there are more & more artistes flooding in to perform.

The very last concert I watch was Jacky Cheung's in July this year. Needless to say, it's a fantastic live performance. Thinking of not every singer can sing live, it's really a pleasure to be there. Those singers that I like, almost all can perform 'live'. They are singers like Jacky Cheung from Hong Kong, Jeff Chang from Taiwan & Tan Weilian from Singapore. emm... I heard that Se7en from Korea can sing 'live' very well too but yet to have to chance to listen.

Let's talk about Jay Chou today.

Recently, sistic counters & online starts to sell Jay Chou's concert which will be held next year on 19th Jan. One of my colli is his fanatic fan & I still remember she got a hard time getting the tickets online as their server has been having problem since 9.00am when they start to sell the tickets. The overwhelmed response could be due to 3 yrs of not holding concert here in Singapore. Not too long ago, his own directed movie "Secret" were so hot thru out Asia. I have watched it twice & I must say for a newcomer directing a movie, he really did a great job!

I must really admit that he's a talented artiste. He knows how to play a few different kind of instruments & I especially like him playing piano as he really look so cool! Besides that, the songs that he composed, most of them are good too.

I have bought his concert ticket for next year but was kinda sad to hear that there's another added concert on 18th Jan. Cos 18th Jan is actually his birthday! It will be such heart warm feeling listening to everyone in the stadium singing birthday song to him! Nevermind! I dun think I wanna spend $ to buy another tic for the concert on 18th Jan cos I'm really very broke already.

Let's see how he fare next year on his 'live' performance.

好丰盛的午餐!!!

2007-10-26T14:59:00.000+08:00

刚和朋友去吃了一顿丰盛的午餐! 地点在实龙岗一带,餐馆名字叫大自然素食馆.

第一道是水果咕噜肉. 上菜的时候,觉得很奇怪,因为没看到'水果'!

第二道是世界名片. 这道菜是用鲍鱼菇沾些粉炸的,看起来和水果咕噜肉一样!

第三道是铁板豆腐. 好好吃哦!

第四道是上汤筧(JIAN - 找不到这个字)菜.清清淡淡的,不错啦!

最后一道菜是咸菜豆腐汤.

口感不错啦!有空去试试吧!

Lau Di Fang Restaurant

2007-10-26T11:13:00.000+08:00

Went to Lau Di Fang vegetarian restaurant last weekend. See wat I have eaten!

This is Fried Udon with black pepper. If you like food with black pepper added on it, you will love this!

This dish is called Salted Crispy Chicken. I think it's made of mock meat & they fried it.

Btw, the restaurant is located in Apollo Centre @ Level 1.

My Cactus

2007-10-19T15:45:00.000+08:00

hahahaha.... cannot imagine someone like me will keep plants de hor?

Actually hor, it's from a fren lah then I just put it outside the house lor. After that, I was away for abt 2 mths & when I came back I was so shocked to see it. It actually growth this big! Whilst I was away, my fren help me to water it lor but I thot it's not gonna make it as both of us are not plant lovers. Now, I have to shift it from a small pot to a bigger one & I'm surprised that it's growing well.

It's actually bery easy to look after cactus, dat's y I began to like it. hehehe... just need to water the plant once a week mah. emm.... the shape of the cactus looks funni hor? Looks like it have been suffering for a long time or kena torture like dat hor? aiya... chin chai lah as long as it's still alive! wahahahaha.... let's see I can keep it for how long. kekekeke....

How's everyone's weekend?

2007-10-08T09:01:00.000+08:00

Well….. I think I better write something here even if I’m extremely busy cos 1 of my fren told me that my blog is getting bored. Hahaha…. probably it’s becos I dun write bery regularly here.

Anyway, how’s everyone’s weekend?

My weekend was kind of busy. Last Sat, I woke up at 8 plus in the morning & were busy doing my laundry, cleaning up my room, make sandwiches for myself, watering my cactus etc…. I went to my fren’s hse for a little gathering in the afternoon.

So wat did I do on Sun? Went for gathering again lor! Have steamboat at my fren’s place. Hahahaha….

Well…. My dear frens, pls pardon me if you find that this topic were kind of bored & nothing interesting. Haha… got to really have mood then can write one mah.

Now, I’m in a lazy & sleepy mood. Hehehe…

Btw, I have been reading a lot of novels recently. Will update u guys on wat I have been reading if I hv the time. :p

最近在忙什麽？看DVD啰！

2007-09-30T18:18:00.000+08:00

"天涯侠医" 剧照

http://www.tvb.com

哈哈。。。最近忙着看DVD，根本没时间上网。嗯。。。看什麽啊？港剧，韩剧，都有！

无意中，在电视，看到了港剧“天涯侠医”，就爱上它了！之后，同事告诉我，她的朋友借了给她，就跟她借了来看。虽然，只借到了一部份来看，不过，还是要在这儿介绍一下这部港剧。

这部港剧，不知道是在2003或是2004年制作的。主要演员有张家辉`林峰等等。。。哈哈。。。千万不要问我女演员的名字，理由是什麽，了解我的人，应该很清楚。

这部港剧，描述的是什麽，看看剧名就知道了。对了！是关于医学界的故事。描述了几位医生的家庭及感情生活，当然，免不了他们在工作上的操守。讲的是，一些医生，除了在诊所里医治病人外，也会抽些时间，到一些贫穷的国家作义工。其实，自己一向来都很喜欢看这类的剧集，能吸收多些医学上的知识，何乐而不为呢？一直以来，港剧好的一点，就是不拖拖拉拉，演戏胜在自然，角色生活化。

很欣赏张家辉在戏里的演技，不愠不火，感情处理，恰到好处。姜还是老的辣！

其实，在看戏的当中，真的在想，现实生活里，真的有这麽多操守这麽好的医生吗？真的有这麽多的“侠医”吗？虽然，现实毕竟是现实，但我还是希望有多一点这样的人存在。毕竟人都是应该抱着希望的，不是吗？

在戏里面，时常都会说这麽一句话“我们龙城，不只是医病，还有医人，一切都以病人的意愿为主。”听起来，感觉真的很不一样。毕竟，现今的社会，很多专业人士，都以自己的利益为出发点，不是吗？除了钱以外，还有多少人和你提专业啊？

总之，这部港剧，真的不错，有时间的话，不妨一看。有兴趣的话，可以上TVB的网上看看 http://tvcity.tvb.com/drama/last_breakthrough/cast/index.html

Insomnia

2007-09-26T14:47:00.000+08:00

haiyo! Whole nite didn't koon again! Oh gosh! Really sian! I had a very bad toothache since yesterday.... Poor Me.... sob..sob...sob...

I visit the dentist yesterday lor. She say quite a few of my tooth decay liao leh. I wanna cry lor. What happened sia? Must have taken too much honey!! Got to realy take very gd care of my teeth now as I dun want myself to end up wearing denture at such a young age lor.

Last night, really pain until cannot koon leh. Today hor took half a day leave to koon at hm.

Oh tonight gonna watch WL perform le. Gonna see a lot of frens again! Miss them sia!

Ok la. Pain until dun feel like writing le.... If tomorrow eng then I will write abt WL's performance bah.

Are you sure u looking for a job??

2007-09-20T10:53:00.000+08:00

Wahahahah.... just encounter a funny incident.

My company is looking for a sales staff & I was the one who help to put up the advertisement.

What happen was there were this man who called up several times yesterday making enquiries on this. The very 1st time when I talk to him on the phone hor, I was stunned by the way he speaks! He was telling me about his working experience, how expert he is blah blah blah..... He never stop boasting abt himself & were telling me things like " oh... I very paisei to say this but next time I might become your manager." After hanging up the phone, I was realli wondering if he's realli looking for a job!

This morning, he called again! You know what he tell me this time? I nearly fainted! He say " Can I speak to the manager who's doing the interview?" so I asked him why he needs to speak to him. His reply was " Well... If I'm not qualify then I no need to waste my taxi fare to come down." I decided to let him speak to my manager & after my manager hang up the phone, he told me this guy muz be insane. My manager were asking him " Why u wanna leave your previous company?" He replied " Cos my manager dun like me." so my manager asked him " How long have u been with the company?" He replied " 18 years." Outside my manager room, I can hear him speaking very loudly. He says " What!!?!! After working there for 18 years, you are telling me that the manager dun like you!" And later on, he went on telling my manager abt not wasting his taxi fare blah blah blah. After my manager hang up the phone & tell us wat happened. Our conclusion is since he's so rich to take a cab here for an interview & he's an expert in all fields, why does he still need a job? Dun waste your taxi fare? I think you dun waste our time lor!

Why I start a blog ah?

2007-09-18T15:27:00.000+08:00

Actually hor... I also dunno why I started this blog leh. Probably it's becos my frens are complaining that I have no time for them bah so I was thinking of writing here to let them know how happening my life is bah. hahahaha... pls pardon me for my Singlish as most of you all know my ang moh not bery gd de la hor. I think most of the time I will post in chinese bah but for a busy person like me hor... I also dunno if I can substain by writing so frequently here lor. hehehe.... Welcome to Yawny's life & happy reading!